by Robin Hibbs | May 24, 2024 | Friends, Family & Flings, Topic cluster - LGBTQ+
The online queer world can be a daunting thing to penetrate. Messy speaks to avid Grindr users to find out how to have a smooth ride on the app, so things don’t get hairy. “Oh god. I’m about to meet up with this complete stranger. To have sex.” Alex was 18, and on a...
by Larissa Hurt | May 22, 2024 | Friends, Family & Flings, Larissa Hurt
All heterosexual couples have been there. A poorly timed erection poking you in the morning, whilst your bleeding out your vagina and your cramps make you feel like you’re about to give birth. The guilt and isolation can follow. Are you and your partner not...
by Jess Whitaker | May 20, 2024 | Friends, Family & Flings, Jess Whitaker
Virginity – a word with immense social and personal meaning, and a wide range of expectations and emotions. But how much does it really matter? Picture this. You’re on a first date. The conversation is flowing, you’re flirting, the sexual tension is there and...
by Rebecca McPhillips | Apr 24, 2024 | Convos With Clever Clogs, Rebecca McPhillips, Topic Cluster - Careers
Were you aware that one could make a living as a full time sex educator? Tatiana Ashborn is a 21 year old sex educator and podcast host, forefronting the highly followed show ‘Under the Sheets’ with her company, ‘Dirty talk’. Messy sat down with her to ask 10...
by Larissa Hurt | Apr 24, 2024 | ATM (At the moment), Larissa Hurt
Christian Grey’s ‘sexy’ domination of Anastasia in Fifty Shades of Grey, and Daenerys’s not-so-consensual wedding night in Game of Thrones. Vital conversations about consent and sexual violence can sometimes take a backseat whilst drama takes the wheel on our screens....
